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mmo
Noteworthy
November 2005 |
the
mothers' revolution:
Brain,
Child Magazine does
the mothers' movement
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women
and work:
Catalyst
releases breakthrough study on gender stereotyping in business
leadership
Selected
news items and commentary on back-to-work moms, hitting the
maternal wall, and women chucking high demand careers. Plus: related
articles.
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domestic
violence:
CDC
study documents high costs and impact
of intimate partner violence: average health care cost for
women exceeds twice the average cost for men
New
survey tracks effects, attitudes about intimate partner violence
in the workplace
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fertility,
adoption and reproductive health:
CDC
reports increase in non-marital childbearing, c-sections and infant mortality
in the U.S.
American
RadioWorks documentary on international adoption
More
news and commentary on reproductive health and rights
|
young
feminists:
Younger
Women’s Task Force launches new website
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child
care:
New
studies add fuel to day care debate
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pop
culture:
There's
something about Maureen;
Small children on the rampage at a café near you (and you're to blame)
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elsewhere
on the web:
Interviews
with the author of a new book on children of incarcerated parents,
plus notable news and commentary on income inequality, heath care
insecurity, women in leadership, more
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past
editions of mmo noteworthy ... |
the
mothers' revolution: |
Brain,
Child Magazine does the mothers' movement
In the
Fall 2005 issue of Brain, Child Magazine,
co-editor Stephanie Wilkinson dares
to ask the question: "Is There Going to Be a Mothers' Revolution
or What?"
Wilkinson's
feature story ("Say You Want a Revolution: Why the mothers'
movement hasn't happened… yet") surveys individuals
and organizational leaders about the various motives and ideological
perspectives driving the movement's formation, and the practical
and political challenges to mobilizing an effective grass-roots
base. The result is an accurate and well-balanced snapshot of
where the mothers' movement is today, where it wants to go, and
what it will take to get there. The article includes interviews Ann Crittenden, Enola
Aird, Andrea O'Reilly, Joanne
Brundage of Mothers & More, Linda
Jurgens of NAMC, work-life policy analyst Karen
Kornbluh, author Judith Warner,
MMO editor Judith Stadtman Tucker
and others.
Brain,
Child Magazine
www.brainchildmag.com
Say
You Want a Revolution
Stephanie Wilkinson, Brain, Child Magazine, Fall 2005
Also
online from the current issue of Brain, Child:
Here
Comes the Judgment:
Can there be judgment-free activism?
Eileen Flanagan, Brain, Child Magazine, Fall 2005
"Part of the problem is that we live in such an individualistic
culture that we abhor anyone telling us what to do. Although we
may quote the African saying, 'It takes a village to raise a child,'
most of us don't really want a village telling us how to raise
our kids."
From
the MMO archives:
The
brains behind Brain, Child Magazine
An interview with Jennifer Niesslein and Stephanie Wilkinson
(May 2003)
Living
Full-Throttle:
Motherhood, Balance, And Another Women's Movement
An essay by Jennifer Niesslein
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women
and work: |
Catalyst
releases breakthrough study on gender stereotyping in
business leadership
Catalyst,
the leading research and advisory organization working with businesses
and the professions to build inclusive environments and expand opportunities
for women at work, recently released the results of a groundbreaking
study on gender stereotyping by both male and female business executives.
The report, Women "Take Care,"
Men "Take Charge:" Stereotyping of U.S. Business Leaders
Exposed (19-Oct-05), found that both positive and negative
stereotypes about women's leadership abilities are prevalent at
the top level of U.S. business management. In particular, male leaders
were more likely to value women executives for their team-building
skills but less likely to view them as competent problem solvers,
the quality most often associated with effective leadership. According
to a Catalyst press release, since men far outnumber women in top
management positions, this male-held stereotype dominates current
corporate thinking and may contribute to the fact that although
women hold more than one-half of all management and professional
positions, they make up less than 2 percent of Fortune 500 and Fortune
1000 CEOs.
“This important
study underscores that it’s what you don’t see and hear
that often counts in the workplace,” said Ilene H. Lang, President
of Catalyst. “By shining a spotlight on this often unspoken
and insidious barrier to women’s advancement, it demonstrates
empirically how gender-based stereotyping often operates as shorthand
for fact and shortchanges women in the workplace.”
The study concludes that
cognitive bias of gendered competency is so deeply ingrained in
corporate culture that simply moving more women into leadership
positions will not reduce the influence of stereotyping, rather
than fact, on executive decision-making in hiring and promotion.
In order to ensure the advancement of qualified women into corporate
leadership positions, the study's authors suggest, both male and
female business leaders will require special training to recognize
and eliminate gender stereotyping in the workplace.
The full report includes
an excellent summary of common gender stereotypes and how they
operate in the workplace. Although the Catalyst study assessed the
occurrence and effects of gender stereotyping at the top tiers of
corporate leadership, prevailing assumptions about the influence
of gender on critical work and life skills inevitably creates barriers
to the advancement of women at all levels of an organization.
The full 45-page report,
a fact sheet, and the October 19 press release can be downloaded
at no charge from the Catalyst web site.
Catalyst
www.catalystwomen.org
Catalyst
Releases First Report in Series
Addressing Top Barriers to Women's Advancement
Women "Take Care," Men "Take Charge:"
Stereotyping of U.S. Business Leaders Exposed
Also
from Catalyst:
Catalyst recently reorganized its publication section and now offers
literally dozens of free fact sheets and reports on women executives
and women in the workplace in North America and abroad. Resources
are in .pdf format.
Catalyst
Bookstore
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Selected
news items and commentary
On back-to-work moms, hitting the maternal wall, and women chucking
high demand careers. Plus: other relevant articles.
Job
opportunities grow for mothers who reinvent themselves and set goals
Maggie Jackson, Boston
Globe/BostonWorks, 23 Oct 05
"Say you're a mom with a good-sized gap in your résumé,
and you want to go back to work. The other playground moms are put
out, your Rolodex is ancient history and you wonder how you're going
to explain away all those years of fund-raising and baking cookies
-- if you ever land a job interview."
Long-delayed
return to job market gets cut off by "The Process"
Mindy Pollack-Fusi, Boston
Globe/BostonWorks, 23 Oct 05
"Was I discriminated against because of my age, my motherhood
status, or because my experience lay largely in the volunteer arena?
I'll never know, but I do recognize I was treated callously compared
to years past, for whatever reasons."
Women
raise kids, lose careers
Tenisha Mercer, Seattle
Post Intelligencer, 24 Oct 05
"Thirty years after women began joining the work force in large
numbers, many are hitting the "mommy wall" when they try
to return to work after having children."
Goodbye
to All That
Jia Lynn Yang, Fortune,
14 Nov 05
Getting to the top can take the better part of a lifetime. So why
do some women choose to chuck it?
Related
articles:
Get
A Life!
Jody Miller and Matt Miller, Fortune,
28 Nov 05
Working 24/7 may seem good for companies, but it's often bad for
the talent -- and men finally agree. So businesses are hatching
alternatives to the punishing, productivity-sapping norm.
Paid
leave plans for new fathers
BBC News, 19
Oct 2005
In UK, fathers of babies could get the right to take three months'
paid leave
Generation
Y:
They've arrived at work with a new attitude
Stephanie Armour, USA
Today, 7 Nov 05
"They're young, smart, brash. They may wear flip-flops to the
office or listen to iPods at their desk. They want to work, but
they don't want work to be their life."
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domestic
violence: |
CDC
study documents high costs and impact of intimate partner violence
Average health care cost for women
exceeds twice
the average cost for men
The
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
released the results of the first study to identify the health care
costs and impact of domestic violence incidents, where men as well
as women are victims.
The study, co-authored
by Ileana Arias, PhD, director of CDC’s National Center for
Injury Prevention and Control, and published in the journal Violence
and Victims, found the health care costs associated with each
incident were $948 in cases where women were the victims and $387
in cases where men were the victims. The study also found that domestic
violence against women results in more emergency room visits and
inpatient hospitalizations, including greater use of physician services
than domestic violence where men are the victims.
Domestic violence, which
is also called spouse abuse or battering or intimate partner violence
(IPV), affects more than 32 million Americans each year; with more
than 2 million injuries and claims and approximately 1300 deaths.
This type of violence includes physical, sexual, or psychological
harm to another by a current or former partner or spouse.
The preceding
information is from a
CDC
press release (25-Oct-05).
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New
survey tracks effects, attitudes about intimate partner violence
in the workplace
The
Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence (CAEPV), an organization
founded by business leaders to study and reduce the impact of domestic
violence in the workplace, has published results from a recent survey
designed to track employees' experience and attitudes about the
effects of domestic violence where they work.
Between July and September
2005, CAEPV polled 1,200 employed adults across the US in the first-ever
national benchmarking telephone survey to discover what the general
adult employee population believes about domestic violence as a
workplace issue - and how they have been impacted. The survey found
that:
- 21% of respondents
(men and women) identified themselves as victims of intimate partner
violence
- 64% of victims of
domestic violence indicated that their ability to work was affected
by the violence
- 30% reported that
the abuser frequently visited the office
- 33% of victims reported
their employer provides no programs or support
- 44% of employed adults
surveyed personally experienced domestic violence's effect in
their workplaces
- 31% of respondents
felt "strongly" to "somewhat obliged" to cover
for a victim of domestic violence by performing his or her work
or offering excuses for his or her absence
- 27% reported "extremely
frequently" to "somewhat frequently" having to
"do the victim's work for them"
- 25% resented co-workers
from "great" to "some extent" because of the
effect of their situation "on the workplace"
Corporate
Alliance to End Partner Violence
www.caepv.org
Domestic
Violence Exerts Significant Impact on America's Workplaces, Benchmark Study Finds
CAEPV press release, 11 Oct 05
Also
from CAEPV:
Facts
on the effects of domestic violence on the workplace
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fertility,
adoption & reproductive health: |
CDC
reports increase in non-marital childbearing, c-sections and infant mortality in the U.S.
In preliminary analyses
of U.S. birth data, The Centers for Disease
Control reported a 4 percent increase in non-marital childbearing
from 2003 to 2004 and a 6 percent increase in cesarean deliveries,
with a 13 percent drop in the number of vaginal births after cesarean
delivery (VBAC). Other key health indicators announced by the CDC
include:
- The number of cesarean
deliveries in the U.S. has increased over 40 percent since 1996,
while VBAC rates fell 67 percent during the same time period.
Surgical deliveries accounted for 29 percent of all births last
year, the highest rate ever reported in the United States.
- Last year more than
half a million infants were born before 37 weeks of gestation
-- there were more pre-term births in 2004 than in any year since
1981, when data on gestational age was first collected. Infants
born in 2004 were also slightly more likely to have low birthweights
than those born in 2003.
- In 2004, teen birth
rates continued to trend downward, a pattern which has been consistent
since 1991.
- Over half of all births
to women in their early 20s, and nearly one-third of all births
to women aged 25 to 29, were non-marital, although the CDC does
not track the number of non-marital births to cohabiting parents.
Overall births to young women declined to 102 births per thousand
for age 20 to 24, the lowest birth rate ever reported for this
age group.
- Childbearing to older
women increased from 2003 to 2004, with a 4 percent rise in births
to women age 39 to 44 (to 45 births per thousand) and a 3 percent
increase for women age 40 to 44 (to 9 births per thousand).
In a related assessment
of maternal and infant health factors, the CDC found that the number
of mothers receiving pre-natal care in the first trimester in 2004
-- 83 percent -- remained unchanged from the previous year. There
were also significant racial disparities in the percentage of mothers
receiving early pre-natal care: while 89 percent of non-Hispanic
white mothers received early pre-natal care in 2004, just 70 percent
of Native American mothers, and between 76 and 77 percent of African
American and Latina mothers, received first trimester care.
In a separate study of
U.S. mortality trends, CDC analysts found rates of infant mortality
increased from 6 deaths per thousand in 2001 to 7 deaths per thousand
in 2002, the first increase in U.S. infant mortality since 1958.
In 2002, African American infants were almost 2.5 times more likely
to die before age one than white infants (14.4 compared to 5.8 deaths
per thousand). African American women were also significantly more
likely to die of complications related to pregnancy and childbirth
than other women of color and white women (25 deaths per thousand
compared to 20 and 6 deaths per thousand, respectively).
Links to the CDC summaries
and selected news coverage of the new data are provided below.
Preliminary
Births for 2004
Brady E. Hamilton, PhD; Stephanie J. Ventura, MA; Joyce A. Martin,
MPH; and Paul D. Sutton, PhD, CDC National Center for Health Statistics,
28 Oct 05
Preliminary
Births for 2004: Infant and Maternal Health
Joyce A. Martin, MPH; Brady E. Hamilton, PhD; Fay Menacker, PhD;
Paul D. Sutton, PhD; and T.J. Mathews, MS, CDC National Center for
Health Statistics, 15 Nov 05
Feds:
1.5 million babies born to unwed moms in '04
Sharon Jayson, USA
Today, 31 Oct 05
New federal data showing a record high number of babies -- 1.5 million
-- born last year to unwed mothers, with more of them in their 20s,
has sparked concern about what the trend means for child well-being.
C-Sections
in U.S. Are at All-Time High
The Associated Press, CBS
News, 15 Nov 05
"The increase is attributed to fears of malpractice lawsuits
if a vaginal delivery goes wrong, the preferences of mothers and
physicians, and the risks of attempting vaginal births after Caesareans."
U.S.
Babies Die at Higher Rate: Infant Mortality Rates Are Rising in U.S.,
While Rates in Other Countries Are Improving
Marc Lallanilla, ABC
News, 1 Nov 05
The U.S. infant mortality rate is on the rise for the first time
since 1958, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
In 2001, the infant mortality rate was 6.8 deaths per 1,000 live
births -- in 2002, the rate rose to 7.0.
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American
RadioWorks documentary on international adoption
Finding
Home: Fifty Years of International Adoption
Sasha Aslanian, Ellen Guettler and Michael Montgomery,
American RadioWorks, October 2005
"In the past
decade, the number of foreign children adopted by Americans has
nearly tripled to more than 20,000 a year. Most come from poor and
troubled parts of the world, and a life in America offers new hope.
But it also means separation from their birth culture. Fifty years
of experience with international adoption has led to new approaches
in bringing up a multicultural child, but the success of international
adoption brings perils, too. The past few years have seen an explosion
in adoption groups and companies competing for clients, often over
the Internet."
Audio downloads, photo
essays, transcripts, and links and resources are available on the
documentary's website.
American
RadioWorks
americanradioworks.publicradio.org
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More
news and commentary on reproductive health and rights:
Controversial
Study Allows Parents to Pick Baby's Sex:
Ethicists Worry About Opening Pandora's Box of Gender Engineering
ABC News,
26 Oct 05
"Doctors often analyze embryos for genetic defects, some
of which are more common in boys or girls. But in the Baylor study,
up to 200 couples going through in vitro fertilization will be
allowed to pick either male or female embryos, so researchers
can better understand their motivation."
The
Gene Wars
Patricia J. Williams, The Nation/AlterNet,
15 Nov 05
We live in a time when embryos and fetuses are gaining the status
of 'persons,' with legal rights to sue. Is this a good thing?
"At least or perhaps especially in the United States, we
find ourselves tangled in new definitions of separation and individuation.
There has been a restructuring, of our rhetoric as well as of
certain religious ideologies, that expressly pits a woman's body
against her fetus."
States
Open Back Door to Emergency Contraception
Molly M. Ginty, Women's
eNews, 4 Nov 05
Congress renewed pressure this week on the FDA to allow over-the-counter
sales of emergency contraception. Eight states already make that
possible.
Did
FDA Play Politics With Plan B?
Jeffrey Young, AlterNet,
16 Nov 05
A government report adds fuel to Democrats' charge that Bush administration
officials interfered with the FDA's handling of the morning-after
pill.
Stonewalling
Plan B
Will Doig, AlterNet,
18 Nov 05
Former FDA director Susan Wood speaks out about the 'morning-after'
pill -- what's in it, potential risks, and why it may never hit
your local drugstore's shelves.
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young
feminists: |
Younger
Women’s Task Force
launches new website
The Younger
Women’s Task Force,
a nationwide, diverse and inclusive grassroots movement dedicated
to organizing younger women and their allies to take action on issues
that matter most to them, has launched a new website. By and for
younger women, YWTF works both within and beyond the women’s
movement, engaging all who are invested in advancing the rights
of younger women. The Task Force currently has active chapters in
the Washington, DC Metro area; Miami; Milwaukee; New York City;
Portland, Maine; Philadelphia and Northeastern Pennsylvania; Southern
California; Phoenix and Tucson, Arizona; and Seattle. Young women
and allies interested in joining an existing chapter or founding
a new one can find more information on the YWTF website.
The YWTF is a project
of the National
Council of Women’s Organizations.
Younger
Women’s Task Force
www.ywtf.org
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child
care: |
New
studies add fuel to day care debate
The release
of several reports based on large-scale studies of children in day
care drew national attention earlier this month when the New
York Times and other news outlets covered mixed results of
the new research.
Leading
the pack was an analysis of new data from a long term study by the
National Institute of Child Health and Development
(NICHD) which found that third graders who spent long hours in day
care prior to age 4 may have stronger math and reading aptitude
but poorer social skills and study habits. An unrelated study by
Stanford University researchers found that among children who attended
center-based child care programs, low-income children reaped more
learning advantages than their middle-class peers. The study's authors
also found that early entry into center-based care had a negative
effect on social development, especially for children from affluent
families. According to a New
York Times
story, "Youngsters who were from families with income of
at least $66,000 and who spent more than 30 hours a week in center-based
care had the weakest social skills -- including diminished levels
of cooperation, sharing and motivated engagement in classroom tasks,
along with greater aggression -- compared with similar children
who remained at home with a parent" (Tamar Lewin, "3 New
Studies Assess Effects of Child Care," 1 Nov 05).
And last but not least, an assessment of day care related deaths
discovered that child fatalities are significantly more likely to
occur in informal or family day care settings -- which tend to be
the most flexible and affordable child care option for millions
of working families -- than in regulated, center-based programs.
The irksome
thing about the tenor of these stories is not the media's insatiable
appetite for stoking the controversy over women, work and family
in America, or even the perplexing inability of the national press
to report on social research in a manner that accounts for the real
limitations of the science -- it's the depressing predictability
of it. A quick Google search of the key words "child care"
and "NICHD" brings up 93,000 records reflecting five-plus
years of public crossfire on the question of whether or not the
Institute's ongoing study offers conclusive evidence that day care
is bad for children, and if so, what should be done about it. As Jennifer
Foote Sweeney wrote in an April 2001 article for Salon, "There
should be a drill for mothers -- taught, perhaps, along with burping,
diapering and CPR -- that prepares them for the periodic and deeply
traumatic announcements of the Early Child Care Study at the National
Institute of Child Health and Human Development." What I find
fascinating about the latest crop of reporting is an emphasis on
findings suggesting that children from low-income families benefit
from spending long hours in non-maternal care, while children from
affluent families stand to loose development ground. Can you say
"welfare-to-work"? How about "opt out revolution"?
Related
articles:
Day
scare
Priya Jain, Salon,
3 Nov 05
Will child care stunt your kid's social skills? Three studies find
downsides, but the results aren't as terrifying as they seem. "A
deeper look at the studies show that there's little reason to panic.
Child-care fatality rates are very low (between .71 and .83 per
100,000 kids, depending on what survey data you use), and the behavioral
studies offer no cause-effect conclusion. Indeed, the behavioral
changes of children in any kind of care arrangement are small."
The
Day-Care Scare
Nina Shapiro, Seattle
Weekly, 5-11 Oct 05
Four years ago, research seemed to indicate that day care was turning
out a generation of bullies. Now, new data suggest those fears were
way overblown, and the national day-care debate is about to be rekindled.
How
Much Child Care Is Too Much?
Sue Shellenbarger, The
Wall Street Journal Online, 1 Apr 05
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pop
culture: |
There's
something about Maureen;
Small children on the rampage at a café near you (and you're to blame)
I'm generally reluctant
to comment on culture stories from the New York Times,
because the publishers are so stingy about sharing the news archive
with non-subscribers (and just instituted a premium subscription
rate for readers who want full access to the daily web edition --
a service that, until recently, was free). But a couple of items
published by the Times in the last few weeks deserve attention
in this space, if only to note the intensity of the response from
readers and the alternative media.
First on the list: "What's
a Modern Girl To Do" a New York Times Magazine
feature assembled from selected passages of Maureen
Dowd's new book, Are Men Necessary (30 Oct 05).
Dowd, the lone woman Op-Ed columnist at the Times, seems
terribly preoccupied with how difficult it is for beautiful, talented,
successful women -- someone like herself and her elegant girlfriends,
for example -- to get a date, let alone find an equally brilliant,
talented and successful guy to settle down with. As Caryl
Rivers and Rosalind Barnett
note in a commentary for Women's eNews, Dowd resorts to
rehashing bad reporting on questionable science to verify her suspicion
that smart, independent women are the biggest losers in the mating
and marriage game. But what really rankles Dowd's critics is her
taste for slamming both second and third wave feminists for their
false consciousness and lack of foresight. In the World According
to Maureen, women -- especially young women -- really don't get
the meaning of equality, and never did:
It
was naïve and misguided for the early feminists to tendentiously
demonize Barbie and Cosmo girl, to disdain such female proclivities
as shopping, applying makeup and hunting for sexy shoes and cute
boyfriends…
What
I didn't like at the start of the feminist movement was that young
women were dressing alike, looking alike and thinking alike. They
were supposed to be liberated, but it just seemed like stifling
conformity.
What
I don't like now is that the young women rejecting the feminist
movement are dressing alike, looking alike and thinking alike.
The plumage is more colorful, the shapes are more curvy, the look
is more plastic, the message is diametrically opposite -- before
it was don't be a sex object; now it's be a sex object -- but
the conformity is just as stifling.
…Having
boomeranged once, will women do it again in a couple of decades?
If we flash forward to 2030, will we see all those young women
who thought trying to Have It All was a pointless slog, now middle-aged
and stranded in suburbia, popping Ativan, struggling with rebellious
teenagers, deserted by husbands for younger babes, unable to get
back into a work force they never tried to be part of?
Or maybe by 2030, the
New York Times will have more than one female Op-Ed writer
on staff -- and maybe at least one who is raising a family.
Why
Dowd Doesn't Know What Men Really Want
Caryl Rivers and Rosalind Barnett, Women's
eNews, 2 Nov 05
Today's commentators say it's a shame that Maureen Dowd should depend
on such flaky research and flimsy evidence when writing about feminism.
Dowd's article, based on weak research, was the most e-mailed story
from The New York Times yesterday.
Yes,
Maureen Dowd is necessary
Rebecca Traister, Salon,
8 Nov 05
"Far from being any kind of feminism-denier, Dowd, the only
female Op-Ed columnist at the most powerful newspaper in the world,
is the embodiment of its triumphs, and she knows it. What she has
to say in this book is sometimes crass, often recycled from old
columns, intermittently sloppy, consistently over-generalized and
rooted too firmly in her own rarefied D.C.-N.Y. corridor of power.
But just because Dowd's sphere is a privileged one doesn't mean
her observations aren't both fascinating and true. And, as the blizzard
of response demonstrates, Dowd has kicked off a conversation we
are desperate to have."
Dowd,
Where's My Country?
Sheerly Avni, AlterNet.
14 Nov 05
"It seemed that the title [of Dowd's book] should really have
been: 'Are Rich And Powerful Men Necessary To Rich And Powerful
Women?' To which the only appropriate answer, for anyone outside
Dowd's narrow niche is, who cares?"
Feminism
Is a Failure, and Other Myths
Jennifer Baumgardner, AlterNet,
16 Nov 05
A new book blames women and feminism for the lack of positive sexual
female role models. But women aren't the problem.
Maureen
Dowd's Personal Ad
Ruth Conniff, The
Progressive, 7 Nov 05
"Dowd's big beef is that the older and more successful women
are, the less likely they are to find mates, while the exact reverse
situation holds for men. ...Meanwhile, for the rest of us--including
the college students who are thinking of hanging it all up to have
a family, the unsatisfied stay-at-home moms whom Dowd derides, and
the majority of overburdened working women who are taking on too
much for too little reward in the office and at home—there
has to be a better plan."
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
On another
tangent, a
recent Times story on owners of trendy cafés
who've drawn the line on how childishly small children can behave
in their establishments (Jodi Wilogren with Gretchen Ruethling,
"At Center of a Clash, Rowdy Children in Coffee Shops,"
New York Times, 9 Nov 05) set off a heated debate in online
forums of the NYTimes web site and
Salon. According to the Times story, mothers in a Chicago neighborhood were so resentful about
a sign posted in popular neighborhood coffee shop informing customers
that "children of all ages have to behave and use their indoor
voices" they considered a boycott. The bakery's owner told
the Times reporter that his detractors were "former
cheerleaders and beauty queens" who "have a very strong
sense of entitlement." "So simmers another skirmish between
the childless and the child-centered, a culture clash increasingly
common in restaurants and other public spaces as a new generation
of busy, older, well-off parents ferry little ones with them,"
the Times reports. Many readers who left comments sided
with restaurant owners interviewed for the article, who argued that
the sole cause of the bratty behavior their grown-up patrons find
so distasteful is over-permissive parenting, and that "good"
children (a code word for well-tempered children with "responsible"
parents) are always welcome in their establishments.
Restaurant proprietors
may be well within their rights to ask parents to reign in their
kid's disruptive behavior or take their business elsewhere. And
I'm guessing that most parents would rather not patronize establishments
where their parenting skills are subjected to laser-like scrutiny
by other café-goers. But the Times article does
raise some troubling and complicated questions about who in our
society has easy access to popular cultural spaces, whether the
comfort of those who prefer to sip their lattes in a child-free
zone automatically take precedence over the comfort of patrons with
young children in tow (or vice versa), and why we might find some
individuals' claim to a certain quality of experience in public
places more persuasive that that of others.
On Salon's
Broadsheet:
Should
cafes be kid-free?
Posted by Sarah Karnasiewicz, 9 Nov 05
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Arrested
Development
Kelly Hearn, AlterNet, 15
Oct 05
"A reprehensible number of children of prisoners in the United
States have been left parentless in recent years thanks in large
part to overreaching mandatory sentencing laws. Often poor, psychologically
scarred and prone to generational cycles of criminality, their numbers
grow with the industrial prison complex, itself an offspring of
fear, profit and politically motivated 'wars' on drugs and crime."
An interview with journalist Nell Bernstein on her new book, All
Alone in the World.
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All Alone in the World
Nell Bernstein, AlterNet,
15 Oct 05
With their parents arrested, these children were left to fend for
themselves.
Love
under lock and key
Sarah Karnasiewicz, Salon,
15 Nov 05
A new book says the 2.4 million children who have parents behind
bars are the real victims of America's prison boom.
The
Meth Epidemic: Hype vs. Reality
Martha Shirk, Youth
Today Newspaper, Oct 2005
"While some child welfare agencies are struggling with growing
caseloads and new challenges stemming from parental meth use, experts
on meth addiction and child welfare say the recent coverage promulgated
some myths: that meth-related child abuse is worse than it is, that
meth addicts are harder to treat than they are, and that the nation’s
child-welfare system is overwhelmed, when many agencies are coping
well." Youth Today is the only independent, nationally distributed
newspaper that is read by more than 70,000 professionals in the
youth service field.
Children's
health insurance at risk
Economic Policy Institute,
Economic Snapshot, 19 Oct 05
"An important source of health insurance for children is dependent
coverage through their parents' employer. But in recent years, there
has been a substantial decline in employer-provided health insurance
for children. In fact, from 2000 to 2004, children fared the worst
of any group in terms of declines in employer-provided health coverage."
Prognosis
worsens for workers' health care: Fourth consecutive year of decline
in employer-provided insurance coverage
Elise Gould, Economic
Policy Institute, 20 Oct 2005
"The number of people without health insurance grew significantly
for the fourth year in a row. Nearly 46 million Americans were uninsured
in 2004—up six million since 2000. The rate of those without
insurance for the whole year has grown 1.5 percentage points during
this period, from 14.2% in 2000 to 15.7% in 2004."
Monkey
See, Monkey Do
David K. Shipler, Columbia
Journalism Review, Nov/Dec 05
"In an open society, nobody who had been watching television
or reading newspapers should have been surprised by what Katrina
“revealed,” to use the word so widely uttered in the
aftermath. The fissures of race and class should be 'revealed' every
day by America’s free press. Why aren’t they?"
Billionaires
R Us
Chuck Collins and Felice Yeskel, AlterNet,
24 Oct 05
"The United States is now the third most unequal industrialized
society after Russia and Mexico. This is not a club we want to be
part of."
Bankruptcy
Law Pushes Women Closer to Edge
Sandra Guy, Women's
eNews, 28 Oct 05
Women file for bankruptcy in greater numbers than men and face higher
barriers to financial security. As a result, advocates say, women
have more to lose under the new bankruptcy law enacted last week.
College
gender gap widens: 57% are women
Mary Beth Marklein, USA
Today, 19 Oct 05
"There are more men than women ages 18-24 in the USA —
15 million vs. 14.2 million, according to a Census Bureau estimate
last year. But nationally, the male/female ratio on campus today
is 43/57, a reversal from the late 1960s and well beyond the nearly
even splits of the mid-1970s."
A
Woman in Command
Juliette Terzieff, AlterNet,
8 Nov 05
In ABC's 'Commander in Chief,' Geena Davis proves that a woman in
the Oval Office can be just as tough as the big boys -- but is that
what the presidency is really about?
Commander
in Chic
Jennifer L. Pozner, AlterNet,
10 Nov 05
Women audacious enough to seek political power are routinely dogged
by gender-specific coverage that focuses on their looks, fashion
sense and familial relationships.
Marching
Progressives Back into Power
Ruth Conniff, AlterNet,
2 Nov 05
EMILY's List has done wonders for women in politics. But after 20
years of successes, the obstacles left to overcome are clear.
Rosa
Parks Was Not the Beginning
J. Douglas Allen-Taylor, AlterNet,
2 Nov 05
The civil rights icon resisted her own deification and tried to
tell the truth about what really happened in the months leading
up to 1955's Montgomery bus boycott.
"North
Country:" Important Lessons
Laurie Beacham and Amber Hard, Common
Dreams, 27 Oct 05
"Legal experts agree that because of the Eveleth [Mines] case,
for the first time employers across the country instituted policies
to protect their employees from sexual harassment. Sexual harassment
has not disappeared, but Jenson's legal case has made the workplace
safer for women nationwide."
Giving
Mamas a Voice in the Arena of Parenting Experts:
An Interview With Laura Tuley and Jessica Nathanson,
Editors of the Upcoming Anthology
Mother Knows Best: Talking Back to the "Experts"
Sheri Reed, mamazine.com,
22 Oct 05
"Our call for papers, which was posted in the Fall of 2004,
immediately generated both widespread interest and controversy.
Some women were excited and relieved to find a forum in which to
address these issues (some had already been working on articles,
chapters, or dissertations on related topics) while others interpreted
our call as, mainly, an attack on Dr. Sears and his idea of attachment
parenting and reacted to us angrily and condemningly…"
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