More
                      stay-at-home moms in the U.S.?  
  Depends on how you look at it. 
                A new Census report
                    on America’s Families
                    and Living Arrangements found that in
                    2003, 6 million married mothers in households with children
                    under 15 remained out of the paid work force to “care
                    for home and family.” Fathers in similar households
                    were much less like to identify caring for home and family
                    as their primary reason for being out of the labor force;
                    only 15.6 percent (160,000) claimed to be full-time dads,
                    while 45 percent reported they were ill or disabled. The
                    current figures indicate that 26 percent of married mothers
                    in households with young children— and 18 percent of
                    all U.S. mothers with children under 15— are officially
                    stay-at-home moms. 
                The new figures
                    appear to be inconsistent with Census data released last
                    year showing that there were 5.2 million at-home mothers
                    in 2002. But before we jump to any conclusions about a sudden
                    astronomical increase in the number of women leaving the
                    workforce to care for their children at home, it’s
                    important to take into account that these studies were measuring
                    different things and using slightly different methods. But
                    the proportion of married mothers who stay at home works
                    out to be about the same in both reports— around 26
                    percent. 
                Getting an accurate
                    measurement of the number of “at-home” mothers
                    in the U.S. is problematic, since many married women who
                    have some earnings from paid work consider themselves first
                    and foremost at-home or “full-time” mothers.
                    For example, it’s possible that a high percentage of
                    the 2.7 million married mothers with children under 6 and
                    annual earnings of $5,000 or less describe themselves as
                    at-home moms, but because these mothers are technically in
                    the labor force at least part of the year they aren’t
                    included in the official tally. But no matter how you count
                    them, married at-home moms still make up only a modest percentage
                    of all American mothers. The more controversial issue— and
                    the reason new statistics on mothers’ workforce participation
                    invariably draw national media attention— is whether
                    that’s a good or bad thing.  
                America’s
                          Families and Living Arrangements: 2003 
  U.S. Census Bureau, November 2004. In .pdf. 
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                New
                      book compares working hours in the U.S., EU 
                A new study from
                    the International Labor Organization (www.ilo.org)
                    on working hours in industrialized countries finds there
                    is a gap between the time workers spend on the job and the
                    number hours they would prefer to work. “There are
                    groups of workers with ‘excessively’ long hours
                    who would prefer to work less, and at the same time, there
                    is a sizable group of workers whose hours of work are significantly
                    shorter than they would prefer,” said ILO expert John
                    Messenger, editor of the new publication. The book includes
                    studies from five specialists on the issue of working time
                    in Australia, the European Union, Japan, New Zealand and
                    the United States. 
                According to an ILO
                        press release, Working
                        Time and Workers’ Preferences in Industrialized
                        Countries: Finding the Balance finds
                        that people working in excess of 50 hours per week in
                        the US and Australia increased from 15 per cent to 20
                        percent of the workforce during the 1990s. Among those
                        countries included in the study, only Japan (28.1 percent)
                        and New Zealand (21.3 percent) had a higher proportion
                        working more than 50 hours per week. By contrast, in
                        most EU countries the number of people working 50 hours
                        or more per work remains well under 10 percent, with
                        figures ranging from 1.4 percent in the Netherlands to
                        6.2 in Greece and Ireland. The only exception is the
                        United Kingdom, where some 15.5 percent of the workforce
                        spends 50 hours or more at work.  
                The overall pattern
                    underlying these variations is that countries with relatively
                    limited regulation of working time, such as the US, the UK
                    and Australia, tend to have a much higher incidence of excessive
                    hours than other countries, according to the book.  
                In an interview
                    for Take Back Your Time (www.timeday.org),
                    John Messenger comments: “I do think that Europeans
                    generally pay a great deal of attention to their quality
                    of life and are very concerned with protecting it. Of course,
                    a growing number of Americans are becoming concerned about
                    quality of life issues as well, but a key difference between
                    Europe and the US is the extent to which the political will
                    to push a quality of life-oriented agenda has been successfully
                    mobilized.” The complete interview appears in the December
                    2004 edition of the Time Day newsletter. 
                From
                    the Take Back Your Time webs site: 
                               An
                              interview with John Messenger of the ILO on
                  working time in the U.S. and EU. 
                Also
                    of interest in the December Time Day newsletter: 
                                 Reports
                  on 2004 Take Back Your Time Day events 
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                World
                      Health Organization’s 
“Great Expectations” series on maternal health 
                In the lead up to World
                        Health Day on April 7, 2005, WHO (www.who.int)
                        is publishing a series of photo essays on six mothers-to-be
                        living in different countries of the world. In the first
                        installment, Damiana (Bolivia), Samah (Egypt), Hiwot
                        (Ethiopia), Renu (India), Bounlid (Lao People’s
                        Democratic Republic) and Claire (UK) are five months
                        pregnant; in the second installment they are seven months
                        pregnant and have only a few weeks left before their
                        big day. The next installments will resume the mothers’ stories
                        at the birth of their babies, at one week after birth,
                        and finally when their babies are six weeks old. According
                        to the WHO web site, “In a world where more than
                        half a million women die in childbirth every year and
                        where four million newborns each year do not survive
                        beyond one month, these documentaries aim to raise awareness
                        of the challenges we face as a global community in improving
                        maternal and newborn health. They will also draw attention
                        to the pressing need to meet the Millennium Development
                        Goals of reducing maternal deaths by three quarters,
                        and reducing child mortality by two thirds by 2015.” 
                The slogan for World
                    Health Day 2005 is “Make
                    every mother and child count,” which reflects “the reality
                    that today, the health of women and children is not a high
                    enough priority for many governments and the international
                    community.” The United States has one of the highest
                    maternal mortality rates in the developed world; maternal
                    and infant mortality rates in the U.S. are significantly
                    higher for mothers of color. A
                    downloadable tool kit for organizers and activities are
                    available from the WHO web site. 
                The
                        Great Expectations series  
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                New
                      Report on Women in the United States 
                  The 
                    Institute for Women’s Policy Research 
                    (www.iwpr.org) 
                    issued its fifth biennial report comparing women’s progress 
                    toward equality in the 50 states, and things aren’t 
                    looking too good. According to IWPR director Heidi Hartmann, 
                    “At the rate things are changing, it’ll be 50 
                    years before women’s paychecks equal men’s” 
                    and nearly a hundred years before women hold half the seats 
                    in Congress. 
                The state-by-state
                    analysis examines differences in women’s employment
                    and earnings, political participation, social and economic
                    autonomy, reproductive rights, and health and well-being
                    and grades the states on a composite index. The report ranked
                    four states as “Best for Women” (Vermont,
                    Connecticut, Minnesota, and Washington, with Oregon receiving
                    an honorable mention) while seven states were designated “Worst
                    for Women” (Mississippi, South Carolina, Arkansas,
                    Oklahoma, Tennessee, and Texas; Florida earned a dishonorable
                    mention).  
                The 2004 Status
                          of Women in the States study found
                          that poverty is a major problem for women in general,
                          but is a far more serious issue for women of color.
                          Nationwide, nearly one out of four African American
                          women live in poverty and one-quarter of all Native
                          American women live in poverty. The report also found
                          that access to health insurance and pre-natal care
                          is clearly related to maternal and infant mortality
                          rates in the U.S., and that even white infants have
                          higher mortality rates compared to those born in countries
                          with universal health care such as Canada, Denmark,
                          France and Sweden. 
                The report makes
                    a number of policy recommendations, including tougher enforcement
                    of equal opportunity laws, federal and state laws requiring
                    employers to show that they are in compliance with the Equal
                    Pay Act, raising the federal minimum wage and improving state
                    and local living wage laws, paid parental and dependent care
                    leave, public health programs targeting uninsured and underserved
                    women in at-risk populations, and enhanced reproductive rights,
                    especially for low income women. 
                The full report,
                    related issue briefs and information from past reports can
                    be downloaded from the Status
                    of Women in the States web page. 
                The
                          Status of Women in the States 
  Misha Werschkul and Erica Williams. 
  Series Editors: Amy B. Caiazza, Ph.D., and April Shaw 
  Institute for Women’s Policy Research, November 2004 
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                Coming
                      soon to a nation near you: 
  Social insecurity 
                According
                      to numerous economists, political commentators and women’s
                      advocates, the Bush administration’s plan
                      to privatize Social Security is mad, bad and dangerous
                      to everyone. As economist Paul
                      Krugman— who interrupted a hiatus
                      from his regular column for The New York Times to
                      weigh in on the debate— remarks, “If Mr. Bush
                      were to say in plain English that his plan to solve our
                      fiscal problems is to borrow trillions, put the money into
                      stocks and hope for the best, everyone would denounce that
                      plan as the height of irresponsibility.” Of course,
                      that’s not how Mr. Bush is saying it. According to
                      the GOP’s latest fact sheet on “Securing
                      Our Economic Future,” Mr. Bush claims “the
                      current Social Security system needs to be fixed” and “has
                      called for reforms that would keep Social Security’s
                      promises for today’s retirees and near-retirees,
                      while giving younger workers a chance to save in personal
                      accounts for their own retirement. President Bush believes
                      that personal accounts provide ownership, choice, and the
                      opportunity for workers to build a nest egg for their retirement
                      and to pass on to their spouse or their children.” Well,
                      when you put it that way, it doesn’t actually
                      sound like “selling the retirement security of millions
                      of working Americans down the river.” But according
                      to well-respected sources, that’s precisely what
                      it is. 
                As Krugman notes
                    his December 17 column for the NY Times, international
                    attempts to privatize national retirement security programs
                    have had uniformly dismal results. He believes the US can
                    learn from the mistakes of others: “Privatization dissipates
                    a large fraction of workers’ contributions on fees
                    to investment companies. …It leaves many retirees in
                    poverty.” Need I say that many of the potentially impoverished
                    will be mothers? But then, what else is new… 
                Below
                      are links to selected commentaries that have appeared over
                      the last few weeks and other resources on the plan to privatize
                      Social Security: 
                Not
                        Just Your Mom’s Retirement 
                        Nancy Duff Campbell and Joan Entmacher 
                         TomPaine.com 
                    (www.tompaine.com) 
  December 16, 2004 
“Did you know that children, disabled workers and families of prematurely
deceased workers all collect Social Security benefits? The program truly serves
the role of government safety net as it was intended—lending a hand to
Americans in their time of need. The personal investment accounts idea being
floated by the White House and its surrogates would effectively shred that safety
net.” 
                Social
                        Security Suicide 
  By Molly Ivins for AlterNet (www.alternet.org) 
  December 14, 2004 
“Next week, the White House will launch a giant public relations campaign,
just as it did with the campaign to sell us on the Iraq war, with a lot of phony
information to convince us all this lunacy is good for us. Social Security is
of particular concern to women, since we live longer and have fewer earnings
to rely on in retirement.” 
                Anti-Social
                        Security 
  By Dean Baker for The Nation (www.thenation.com) 
  December 9, 2004 
“The Bush plan would require a large reduction in the benefits provided
by the existing system. A worker who is 20 today would see a cut of approximately
one-third in his or her retirement benefit, although workers would theoretically
more than recoup this loss by investing a portion of their Social Security taxes
in a private account.” 
                ----------------                 From
                    the                     Century Foundation Social
                  Security Network 
                    (www.socsec.org) 
                 Twelve
                        Reasons Why Privatizing Social Security is a Bad Idea 
                        Greg Anrig Jr., Bernard Wasow,
                      The Century Foundation 
  December 2004 
“Addressing Social Security’s potential long-term financing challenges
by taking the dramatic step of diverting its payroll taxes to create new personal
accounts will have drastic consequences for federal finances, future retirees,
and those who rely on the system the most. Learn more about twelve major reasons
why less costly and less painful reforms should be considered instead.” 
                Reality
                      Check:  
                       Scare
                      Tactics: Why Social Security Is Not in Crisis  
                      Bernard Wasow, The Century Foundation 
  November 2004 (in .pdf) 
                ----------------                 From
                    the                     Economic Policy Institute (www.epinet.org) 
                Social
                        Security: Facts at a Glance, 2002 
                The
                        Perils of Privatization: Bush’s lethal plan for
                        Social Security 
  by Edith Rasell and Christian E. Weller,
  May 2000 
                Policy
                        Brief: Social Security for Women (2000) 
                ----------------                 From
                           Women’s
                        eNews (www.womensenews.org) 
                 Critics:
                        Privatizing Social Security Hurts Women 
  By Ann Moline, March 13, 2001 
  President Bush’s proposals to privatize the Social Security safety net
  for the nation's elderly would adversely affect older Americans, especially
  women, according to a coalition of women's organizations sponsoring the Women
  and Social Security Project. 
                ---------------- 
                From
                      the  National Women’s Law
                    Center (www.nwlc.org): 
                Fact
                        Sheet:  
  Why Social Security Is a Better Deal Than Privatization 
  for Women and Their Families 
                NWLC
                        Social Security web page 
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                Just
                      Don’t Do “It”:  
  New report reveals inaccuracies
  in abstinence-only education programs 
                 A
                    December report prepared for the office of Rep.
                    Henry Waxman finds that over two-thirds of
                    abstinence-only curricula contain information that is false,
                    misleading or distorted about the effectiveness of contraception,
                    transmission of HIV and STDs, fetal development, abortion
                    and sex differences. These programs— which are federally
                    funded to the tune of $170 million— are taught to millions
                    of adolescents in the US, but are not reviewed by the federal
                    government for accuracy. 
                As Camille
                      Hahn points out in her recent article for Ms.
                      Magazine on the burgeoning abstinence-only
                      education industry (“Virgin
                      Territory,” Fall 2004), the abstinence-only
                      business is overwhelmingly dominated by religious and pro-life
                      groups. “By the time the Supreme Court ruled …that
                      these programs must delete direct references to religion,
                      religious groups already had a near-monopoly on abstinence-only
                      education, which as a result is still mostly carried out
                      by religious groups and individuals. In public schools,
                      these educators give reasons such as the prevention of
                      pregnancy and STDs for remaining chaste, but for a large
                      majority, their personal belief in abstinence stems from
                      their religious convictions.” This is consistent
                      with the findings of the Waxman report, which found a blurring
                      of religion and science in abstinence-only teaching materials. 
                You’ll be
                    just thrilled to hear that somewhere in a city or town near
                    you, public school students are learning that a fertilized
                    ovum is a “tiny baby,” that a six-week old embryo
                    is a “thinking person” and that 
                
                  Men tend to be
                      more tuned in to what is happening today and what needs
                      to be done for a secure future. When women began to enter
                      the work force at an equal pace with men, companies noticed
                      that women were not as concerned about preparing for retirement.
                      This stems from the priority men and women place on the
                      past, present and future. 
                 
                This is your tax
                    dollars hard at work. If you’d like to do something
                    about it, pay a visit to the Planned
                    Parenthood Action Network or the Advocates
                    for Youth Sex Education web site. 
                Report: 
                       The
                      Content of Federally Funded Abstinence-Only Education Programs 
  December 2004 (in .pdf) 
                Science
                        or Politics? 
                        George W. Bush and the Future of Sexuality Education in the United States 
                        Fact sheet from Advocates for
  Youth— in .pdf 
                From
                        Salon (www.salon.com) 
                 Bush’s
                        sex fantasy 
  By Michelle Goldberg, February 2004 
“George Bush’s proposed 2005 budget cuts funding for veterans’ healthcare
and public housing. It freezes funding for after-school programs and Temporary
Assistance for Needy Families grants. It provides less than one-sixth of the
increase needed to close the budget shortfall in the AIDS Drug Assistance Program,
which helps low-income HIV patients access medical care and lifesaving drugs.
It cuts state Medicaid funding by $1.5 billion. …Yet when it comes to abstinence
education, money seems to be no object. Bush's budget recommends $270 million
for programs that try to dissuade teenagers from having sex, double the amount
spent last year. 
                Just
                        say no to sex; just say yes to big bucks 
  By Sharon Lerner, September 1999  
“Three years after the passage of the Welfare Reform Act, Figueroa’s
workshop, held after class in public high schools, is one of a crop of just-say-no-to-sex
programs springing up across the country. Through a little-noticed provision
in the 1996 welfare law, almost $500 million of government money (a mix of federal
and state) is now being used to bring such classes into public and private schools
across the country.” 
                The
                        virginity hoax 
  A federal study reveals the terrible failures inherent in teen vows to chastity. 
  By Jennifer Foote Sweeney, January 2001 
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                More
                      reproductive health news 
                Study
                      Finds First-time Caesarean Births Rising 
  According to a news story by HealthDay reporter Amanda Gardner (“Sharp
  Rise Seen in Needless C-Sections,” November 18, 2004), Boston University
  School of Public Health professor Eugene Declercq says that the number of caesarean
  births among women with no identified medical risks or complications rose by
  67 percent between 1991 and 2001. Declercq and his colleagues reviewed U.S.
  national birth certificate data and found that after controlling for age, race,
  ethnicity, education, birth weight and parity, mothers were 50 percent more
  likely to deliver by caesarean section. First-time mothers over the age of
  40 are more likely to have a caesarean. A particular concern for Declercq and
  his colleagues is that women who have a caesarean with their first baby are
  more likely to have caesareans with subsequent children, which increases the
  risks to newborns and mothers.  
                The one major limitation
                    of the study is that the information listed on the birth
                    certificates may have been inaccurate or incomplete. “There
                    is always the potential that there was another medical indication
                    that didn't happen to be noted,” Declercq acknowledged. “The
                    other potential is that these do represent more elective-type
                    Caesarean births, but nothing allows us to say that this
                    is the mother's choice.” 
                 Gardner reports
                    that, “The study did not address why this increase
                    is taking place, although in the past many have presumed
                    that individual choice on the part of the mother has played
                    a role.” 
                The full article
                    is available from HealthFinder.gov,
                    a service of the National Health Information Center of the
                    U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. 
                 Sharp
                        Rise Seen in Needless C-Sections 
  By Amanda Gardner, November 18, 2004 
                ----------------                 U.S.
                      voters favor nomination of Supreme Court Justices 
  who support Roe v. Wade 
  Given that Bush will likely be in the position to appoint between one and three
  Supreme Court justices in his second term, the subject of abortion is on the
  minds of many Americans.  
                The Quinnipiac University
                    Polling Institute and an Associated Press poll both found
                    that a majority of voters surveyed believe that Bush should
                    nominate Supreme Court Justices who would uphold Roe v. Wade.
                    What’s more, 62 percent of those surveyed in the poll
                    said that Supreme Court nominees should make their views
                    on abortion a matter of public record.  
                According to a December
                    16 article by Joseph Straw for The New
                    Haven Register, voters say Bush should nominate justices
                    who would uphold the Roe v. Wade— the decision making
                    abortion legal in the first three months of pregnancy— by
                    a 50 percent to 34 percent margin,. Sixteen percent of those
                    polled did not know or did not answer. 
                A plurality of respondents— 41
                    percent —said abortion should be legal in “most” cases,
                    while 34 percent said it should be illegal in most. Sixteen
                    percent said it should be legal in all cases, and 13 percent
                    said it should be illegal in all cases. 
                The poll of legal
                    and moral issues showed that a majority of Americans oppose
                    laws allowing gay couples to marry or form civil unions,
                    but also oppose a Constitutional amendment defining marriage
                    as between a man and a woman. 
                The poll surveyed
                    1,529 registered voters nationwide in December 2004. 
                Abortion
                        position key in Supreme Court justice choice 
  By Joseph Straw, The New Haven Register, December, 16 2004 
                ----------------                  FDA
                        to review to application for OTC emergency contraception 
                        The Feminist Majority Foundation (www.feminist.org)
                      has issued an action advisory encouraging women to write
                      a letter to the FDA in support of providing emergency contraception
                      over-the-counter. The FDA is scheduled to make its decision
                  regarding this application by late January 2005. 
                The Feminist Majority
                    Foundation web site reports that Barr Laboratories applied
                    for over-the-counter status for its emergency contraceptive,
                    Plan B, in May 2004, but they were given a “not approvable” letter
                    by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). This decision
                    was made despite the fact that the FDA’s own expert
                    advisory panel deemed the drug to be safe and effective and
                    voted 23-4 in favor of making Plan B available over-the-counter.  
                 This summer a new
                    application for the OTC status of Plan B was submitted with
                    a novel packaging requirement— the “dual label”.
                    If approved under this requirement, Plan B would be available
                    OTC only for women 16 and older. Younger women would still
                    need a prescription to purchase emergency contraception.
                    According to the Feminist Majority Foundation, this is a
                    policy many public health and women’s rights advocates
                    find completely unacceptable because it prevents responsible
                    yet vulnerable young women from accessing a product that
                    has the potential to powerfully shape their future. 
                 For more information
                    on emergency contraception and to take action, visit the Feminist
                    Majority Foundation’s Prescribe Choice web site. 
                ----------------                 For
                      other articles on reproductive rights, see: 
                Choice
                        Language 
                        Abortion is a right that ends in sorrow. 
  Democratic rhetoric in the future must acknowledge this fact. 
                    By Sarah Blustain for The 
                    American Prospect (www.prospect.org) 
  December 2004 
“For those of us who came after Roe v. Wade, there is a significantly different
reality. The context has changed. Back alleys and coat hangers are not part of
our visceral memory. To this generation, the “choice” of a legal
abortion is no longer something to celebrate. It is a decision made in crisis,
and it is never one made happily.” 
                Stop
                        Crying, Start Working 
  By Katha Pollitt for The Nation (www.thenation.org) 
  December 2004 
“If you've been racking your brains for an activist project to replace
obsessively monitoring the Electoral College Vote Predictor, here is one that
could make a real difference as former Texas Air National Guard pilot George
W. Bush swoops us into the wild blue fundamentalist yonder: Get involved with
your local abortion fund. If none exists in your area--there are 102 around the
country--start one yourself.” 
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                Elsewhere
                      on the Web: 
                From
                        The American Association of University Professors (www.aaup.org) 
                 Do Babies Matter? 
  The Effect of Family Formation on the Lifelong Careers of Academic Men and
      Women 
  For women academics, deciding to have a baby is a career decision. Traditional
  narratives of the academic career must adapt to new demands and new constituencies.
  By Mary Ann Mason and Marc Goulde 
                 Do
                        Babies Matter? Part 1  
                 Do
                        Babies Matter? Closing the Gap (Part 2) 
                ---------------- 
                From
                        Women’s
                        eNews (www.womensenews.org) 
                Black
                        Women's Maternal Health Gets New Look 
  By Juhie Bhatia, December 19, 2004 
  African American women’s harder time with pregnancy and infant mortality
  has been documented for many decades. Now a study--involving business leaders,
  social workers as well as doctors--probes the problem from many directions. 
                Fewer
                        Employers Offering Flexible Schedules 
  By Sheryl Nance-Nash, December 16, 2004 
  The economic downtown has caused some companies to scale back their benefit
  programs designed for parents. Yet, they remain extremely popular with all
  employees, especially women, and the tide may turn as the economy strengthens. 
                Moms
                        Fight to Breastfeed in Public 
  By Juhie Bhatia, November 22, 2004 
  As the number of breastfeeding moms increases, their acceptance in public hasn't
  kept pace. Breastfeeding in public is a legally protected activity in over
  half the states, but moms are still being asked to cover up. 
                Women's
                        Shelters Refusing to Surrender Client Info  
  By Sandy Kobrin, November 26, 2004 
  New reporting standards on the homeless may place women living at domestic
  violence shelters at risk. The rules say that shelters must report critical
  information including shelter locations. 
                Sex
                        Drugs for Women Flood the Market 
  By Molly M. Ginty, Novemeber 29, 2004 
  A growing number of women are taking drugs and supplements meant to jump-start
  their sex lives. But do these products really work? Or are they little more
  than sexual snake oil? 
                Suffragists
                        Knew How to Make a Stir on Holidays 
  By Laura Schenone, November 25, 2004 
  Laura Schenone's backward glance at suffrage cookbooks reveals a proud tradition
  of female radicals in the kitchen. 
                ---------------- 
                From
                        AlterNet (www.alternet.org) 
                Time
                        for Bread and Roses 
  By John de Graaf, December 20, 2004. 
  Lack of free time is an issue that crosses the ideological divide. Once, progressives
  fought against time poverty; now that it's worse than ever, shouldn't the banner
  be raised again? 
                Tour
                        of Beauty 
  By Christina Larson, November 30, 2004 
“In ‘Inventing Beauty: A History of the Innovations That Have Made
Us Beautiful,’ New York Times patent writer Teresa Riordan gives readers
a delightful, quirky account of American cosmetic innovations, from lipstick
to silicon implants, from the mid-19th century to the mid-20th.” 
                ---------------- 
                From
                        LiteraryMama (www.literarymama.com) 
                Birthdays— an
                    essay by Amy Hudock 
“I could choose ‘career,’ or I could choose ‘family.’ The
mommy wars had framed the debate in this narrow, either/or way, so that is how
I saw it. Feminism is about individual choice, I thought, and if I choose family,
then it is my choice. Now, however, as I think about what choice really means,
I imagine that a true choice is one in which both possibilities are reasonable.
Under that criteria, this was not a choice.” 
                Confessions
                        of a Desperate Housewife 
  By Lizbeth Finn-Arnold 
“After staying home for a while, the walls of my house seemed as if they
were closing in around me. And I began to feel trapped, a slave to two demanding,
needy children. Part of me wanted to run away and hide from it all -- even my
own babies. And another part of me just wanted to know that I had the option
of running away -- if I wanted to.” 
                — MMO,
                      December 2004 
                Shawna
                      Goodrich contributed to this month’s noteworthy. 
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