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Poverty and the politics of care

page five

Inside the lives of the poor

Our national resistance to attacking poverty head-on is not grounded in a lack of compassion. Rather, America is paralyzed by the enduring conflict between the high value our culture places on rational individualism and the reality of human need. As far as resolving the dilemma of the working poor, Shulman’s idea that some configuration of more money, better policy and stronger labor regulations would do the trick makes sense. But what configuration? In a capitalist society -- in fact, in any society -- poverty is an ideological problem as much as a social and economic one. And in the U.S., there is no clear consensus in either popular or political thought about whether poor people are poor because of the way they act , or the things that happen to them.

If poor people are poor because of the way they act, laws and policies to promote the general welfare might include a system of incentives and deterrents to reform self-defeating behaviors and efforts to isolate those who appear disinterested in self-improvement so they won’t drag the rest of us down. On the other hand, if individuals are thrust into poverty by things that happen to them, we’d need to create laws and policies to prevent or remove conditions which exacerbate social and economic inequality. At different times during the 20th century, the United States has implemented policies based on one or the other of these approaches with mixed results.

 

After visiting the homes, neighborhoods and workplaces of the men, women and families who inhabit the unforgiving terrain of “forgotten America,” Pulitzer-prize winning author David K. Shipler found that neither the causes of poverty nor its potential remedies can be calculated with the “either/or” formula. In The Working Poor: Invisible In America (2004), Shipler documents the exhausting struggles of families living at the edge of the nation’s social and economic margins: “Their wages do not lift them far enough from poverty to improve their lives, and their lives, in turn, hold them back.” The Working Poor rigorously challenges the simplistic logic of the “American Myth” -- the supposition that “people who work hard and make the right decisions in life can achieve anything they want in America” and its equally problematic counter-logic, the “Anti-American Myth,” which holds that “society is largely responsible for the individual’s poverty.”

Like Sharon Hays in Flat Broke With Children, Shipler discovers that poverty is caused by a predictable combination of factors that involve both how individuals act and the things that happen to them. Like the rest of us, people in poverty sometimes make poor choices and end up worse for the wear. But there are also pervasive social, cultural and economic factors which compound the effects of poverty; as Shipler observes, “The poor have less control than the affluent over their private decision… Their personal mistakes have larger consequences, and their personal achievements yield smaller returns.” In other words, poverty in and of itself is wounding -- when the poor take a fall, they fall harder.

Of the workers he portrays in The Working Poor -- including factory workers, agricultural workers, child care workers, welfare mothers, sewing machine operators, retail workers, and many others who drift from one low-wage occupation to another -- Shipler writes, “Each person’s life is the mixed product of bad choices and bad fortune, of roads not taken and roads cut off by accident of birth or circumstance. It is difficult to find someone whose poverty is not related to his or her unwise behavior… And it is difficult to find behavior that is not somehow related to the inherited conditions of being poorly parented, poorly educated, poorly housed in neighborhoods from which no distant horizon of possibility can be seen.” And in the case of women, he might have added “poorly treated,” since women living in financially insecure families and neighborhoods are significantly more likely to experience domestic violence.

Shipler doesn’t downplay the dejection and internal instability experienced by the low-income families he spends time with -- like everyone else in the U.S., Shipler's subjects don't always spend their money wisely, don't always parent well, and are sometimes self-indulgent, disorganized, apathetic, abusive, slovenly and oppositional. Yet Shipler renders these weaknesses with extraordinary kindness and empathy; the reader is never permitted to picture the working poor as anything less than fully human.

Shipler is especially concerned about the lasting effects of inadequate or harmful parenting on both the adults and children he encounters, but he remains guarded in his assessment:

There is no more highly charged subject in the discussion of poverty, for impoverished families have long been stigmatized as dysfunctional. The father is a drunken or addicted ne’er-do-well, if he’s around at all, and the mother is an angry shrew or a submissive incompetent, The parents don’t read to their children, don’t value education, don’t teach or exhibit morality. That is the image, Absent from the picture are the devoted grandmothers and parents who love zealously, the sensible adults who make smart choices within limited means, the supportive web of relatives, all of whom could overcome with more help from society at large.

At the extremes of the debate, liberals don’t want to see the dysfunctional family, and conservatives want to see nothing else. Depending on the ideology, destructive parenting is either not a cause or the only cause of poverty. Neither stereotype is correct. In my research along the edges of poverty, I didn’t find any adults without troubled childhoods, and I came to see those histories as both cause and effect, intertwined with the myriad other difficulties of money, housing, schooling, health, jobs, and neighborhood that reinforce one another.

However, when Shipler asks a behavioral pediatrician who “treats children of all socio-economic levels” to describe the conditions that “prevent bad parenting,” his answer implies the possibility of good parenting is reserved for the middle-class: “It’s a lot easier to be a good parent if you’re well rested, you can afford baby-sitters, and you have someone to clean your house. People who have some of those psychological resources that allow them to be good parents quite often have the resources that allow them to be relatively secure financially.” Of course, the “psychological resources” the doctor itemizes are usually dependent on the economic resources that low-income parents sorely lack. One of the more disconcerting aspects of The Working Poor is the number of examples of helping professionals who fail to see beyond the lens of their own middle-class privilege when evaluating the behavior and problems of the poor.

The Working Poor connects the lives of low-income families to the wider circle of individuals and institutions that influence their well-being -- employers, social workers, teachers and school administrators, health care professionals and workforce training programs. Some of these agents have a better apprehension of the complex origins of individual poverty than others; some are overtly judgmental and unhelpful, but others are doing what they can to improve the lives of the poor. While Shipler cites some of these efforts as exemplary, he predicts that the proliferation of isolated interventions -- no matter how innovative or effective -- will never be enough to relieve, let alone reduce, the dire consequences of poverty in working America. As Shipler writes, “All of the problems have to be solved at once.”

As long as a society picks and chooses which problems to resolve in crisis— usually the one that has propelled the family to a particular agency for help— another crisis is likely to follow, and another. If we set out to find only the magic solution— a job, for example— we will miss the complexities and the job will not be enough.

The first question is whether we know exactly what to do. What problems do we have the skills to solve, and where do our skills reach their outer limits? …The second question is whether we have the will to exercise our skill. Would we spend the money, make sacrifices, restructure the hierarchy of wealth to alleviate the hardships down below?

We lack the skill to solve some problems and the will to solve others, but one piece of knowledge we now possess: We understand that holistic remedies are vital.

The overriding question is what, and how much, our government will do to design and implement such holistic remedies. This is where the American Myth and the American Anti-Myth vie for supremacy, and where politics-as-usual clash with the politics of care. According to Shipler, “If either the system’s exploitation or the victim’s irresponsibility were to blame, one or the other side of the debate would be satisfied.” The lesson of The Working Poor is that such simplistic morality -- and any social policies that might be derived from it -- will be insufficient to lift the downward pressures which fix low-income families in the grim world of forgotten America. “Opportunity and poverty in this country cannot be explained by either the American Myth that hard work is a panacea or by the Anti-Myth that the system imprisons the poor,” Shipler concludes. “Relief will come, if at all, in an amalgam that recognizes both the society’s obligation through government and business, and the individuals obligation through labor and family -- and the commitment of both the society and the individual through education.”

The nation’s working poor may be invisible and forgotten, but they are part of us -- our lives and economy depend on their labor. And until we rework our vision of the American Dream to fuse the ideals of freedom and self-determination with the complex realities of human need and human frailty, many more of us may be joining their ranks.

What works for mothers

Beyond the problems with welfare reform, beyond the problems of low-wage work and the working poor, poverty in America remains primarily a women’s problem -- or more precisely, a mothers’ problem. While the overall poverty rate for women aged 18 to 64 is 10.6 percent in the U.S. (compared to 8.1 percent for men in the same age group), 33 percent of single parent women with children under 18 live in households with incomes below the official poverty line. Lone mothers are nearly five times more likely to live in poverty than mothers in married couple families -- which is one of the rationales for pitching marriage promotion as an anti-poverty measure, although one might reasonably conjecture that the individual and social factors favoring or discouraging marriage are as varied and complicated as the causes of poverty itself -- and that the two are not unrelated.

Welfare is not, and has never been, a poverty reduction program. In its earliest inception, states provided stipends for widowed and abandoned mothers so they would not be forced to seek employment outside the home. In its present incarnation, welfare legislation dictates that mothers must earn their benefits through labor force participation and promotes marriage as the magic bullet that will wipe out women’s poverty once and for all. Never has the U.S. implemented a social program providing the kind of support that would allow poor mothers and their children to live with dignity in the mainstream of society -- or help them thrive rather than just survive.

Work, of course, has everything to do with women’s poverty -- not only due to low-wages, pay inequality, occupational segregation, inflexible workplace practices, stingy social policies, and inadequate labor regulations, but also because some kinds of labor are classified as “work” while others are not. Caring for children is obviously “work:” it requires time, effort, organized thinking, and is location dependent (it happens wherever young children are). And as Beth Shulman emphasizes in The Betrayal of Work, most low-wage occupations dominated by women are caring occupations -- nursing assistants, home health aides and child care workers -- and these jobs are poorly paid precisely because they involve caring work. There are also broader issues of care yet to be resolved: What does it mean to be a caring society? Do individuals have a right to be cared for? Do they have a right to care for others? What is the relationship between care and social power, and how can it be shifted so that care-givers have a real shot at full social and economic citizenship?

Or, as Hays writes in her conclusion to Flat Broke With Children:

A citizen should be able to simultaneously raise children, care for others, participate in determining the future of the nation, and be an independent, productive participant in the public world. The question is, what would it take to make this possible for all members of this society?

 

The public discussion about how caring work should be acknowledged and accommodated -- as well as how it should be shared within families and by society as a whole -- is building steam. There is little doubt that more generous public policies and stronger labor regulations are in order if we hope to free more working families from poverty. But as Sharon Hays reminds us, a nation’s laws reflect a nation’s values. Unless we are prepared to move backwards or stay in place, the emerging mothers’ movement must address both the “law” and the “values” ends of this equation at the same time. Any viable solution to the compound circumstances of women’s poverty -- as well as the middle-class work/life predicament -- will recognize that carework is work without resorting to legislation that codifies carework as the best work for women. My own dream is that someday soon, this solution will be within our reach.

Judith Stadtman Tucker

mmo : December 2004

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